no sex drive

Wondering if anyone has any ideas about how to increase sex drive. I did a cycle a couple of months ago and it seems I have no sex drive right now. I did post therapy and everything was fine. I have been taking hydroxyzine for itching for a few weeks and I feel more mellow but feel nothing down below, it's really fucked up, anyone know if this can affect things? I'm not ready to start a new cycle yet so any ideas besides test. I'm sure that would help but I also only have enanathe which takes 2 to 3 weeks to kick in and I could use something much sooner than that. Any help would be appreciated. I have also been under a lot of stress from a divorce and child custody battle. I'm going to see this woman I recently met in a few days. I even tried viagra but it didn't work either, I'm trippin. I'm 42yo. Bro your pretty young to be taking viagra, i think if the women is good looking enough you should beable to get everything done, if you don't you should go see a doctor for some advice

its just stress

Stress, I agree,... feeling disappointed about yourself cause your off a cycle? Could be too. Did you do a PCT? No, he is not to young for Viagra. Some men show signs of ED (erectile dysfunction (spelling? to tired to care)) around age 40. Try Yohimbe, and/or Saw Palmetto and Zinc (should be taken everyday anyways) and Fish Oil everyday too, and aa supplement that works, 2000mg, before trying Viagra. Try it in this order: 1. Saw palmetto 80mg or more and zinc 50mg and fish oil 1000mg (twice a day... and get these three seperately and not in a multi what-ever tablet) 2. Add raw black berries, frozen food section... someone told me this and I tried it and it gets me going. Couldn't believe it. He also told me of dark chocolate... which didn't work for me. 3. Yohimbe 1000 to 2000 mg. Some say this starts working fast. I have always found it to be prime after 6 hours. 4. Don't just go see a doctor... go see an Endocrinologist. He will specifically know what to look for and don't be afraid to talk freely with him/her. He will do, maybe, a blood test to see where your test levels are... if they are 300 or below... welcome to old age my friend. Ask him specifically your test level number so that you'll know for sure yourself. Don't let him say, "Oh, you're fine..." If none of this works then hit the viagra. Get it from the local sponsers here. cheapest anywhere... that's if your insurance won't pay for it... which in most cases they don't. Do you really think that they want to pay for you to get your rocks off? Nope, the pricks! If you just came off a cycle your test levels maybe swinging low... PCT?

I think the above posts answered your question. I know how you feel because I'm 40 and have no sex drive right now either. I'm not especially worried because I know why. 1) I have been off cycle for over 8 weeks (Just starting back on) and even though I do PCT, I still crash a little. 2) I have a high stress dead-end job that I can't quit because nothing in the same area around here comes close to what they're paying me. 3) I've had lots of drama around me (Brother went through a bad divorce, lost everything, and now his kids are all messed up. Found out my ex is a meth addict and I tried to help her stay off and get her life back together. I failed) 4) THIS IS THE MOST IMPORTANT REASON: There are no women in my life. Right now I don't even have any possibles when it comes to a relationship or even sex. I've never been a "babe magnet" but most of the time I usually had at least someone somewhere attractive who was interested in me. Right now there are none (And I mean women I find attractive) and that just drains the life out of me. Turning 40 and having no attractive women I even have a shot with is very humbling and depressing. If I didn't work out, I'd probably go insane. The only positive side of this is that I know the plumbing still works if I need it because the other day, a very attractive woman touched me and I had instant wood. I think it's just hibernating because it's not needed right now.

I totally feel your pain! This has happened to me and I know it was gear related. Happened twice and I so wish I could take it back because they were seriously hot and insecure enough to not give me a chance afterwards. Nothing worse then literally having a tall, athletic, hottie with her legs spread open and me johnson not fuckin co-operating! She didn't talk to me again after that. This scenario happened twice and thats more then enough for me...lol.:frusty: For me it was the chemical low because usually I am a friggin jack hammer. But this does fuck with your head a little and can actually be just in your head after awhile. Like being with a girl and knowing your gonna fuck her then all thats in your head is worrying if your gonna get hard. Think about it to the point that it actually affects your wang and makes things worse. Once I was in the saddle again I have no more worries. It truly can be just in your head.

You guys are great here? Thanks for all of your input. Feofletch, I'm gonna try your formula and see how it works. Deathnell, that seems to be my problem. I see women and I just haven't been getting that feeling down below. I have NEVER had this in my entire life. I have also had acid refulx shit going on and have been having to take Prilosec a few times a day. I have been under a lot of stress so it could be that too. I have been split from my ex for awhile now and I have noticed that my sex drive was getting less and less intense. That was the one thing that I had going with her. Just the mere thought of her would get me going. Well I'm no longer having sex with her and don't even want to think about her anymore so it's like I have to re-adjust my thoughts towards other women. I was with her for 18 years. I'm starting to see there are quite a few factors involved. But this woman I met is fucking gourgeous and I'm not sure why my thang didn't want to work. Agent007, that's pretty much what happened to me. I'm going to see her later this week and I hope it doesn't happen again or she is going to shit on me. She is really understanding but she needs the dick and believe me, I wanna give it to her. I know some of it might be in my head but I just haven't been feeling it down below. Thanks for all of the advice guys, this place is excellent!

Shit bro... didn't know it was that important and you need a quick fix... skip all that other crap I told you about and order the cialis from the local sponser. You definitly won't be disappointed and she won't be either. I know where you're coming from. I had split from my wife for the second time and met the hottie I often write about on the forum... I have low test levels and went to the endo for it. But waiting for the insurance to accept the script took a month... jump for the cialis, always had some on hand. Same thing... the new girl wanted the dick and at times couldn't give it to her at full strength because of the combination of low test, spliting from my wife, some new hot woman, need to get it up, gotta get it up, come on you little f@ck... get up. I have to pull away from this girl when she was wanting it cause she kept grabbing at me and make up an excuse. We went to a party once and she wanted it sooo bad that she got a room... I felt so bad cause I knew that all I would have for her is a droupy noodle. Blamed it on the alcohal. I wouldn't even finish reading my thread order it now dude or you'll going down in flames and it'll scar you for life and have even more of a complex.

Thanks for all the info bro's. Everything worked out great.

its not good to mess with sexual stimulates unless your older and absolutely have to. Studies have shown that drugs messing with the sulfide channels necessary to get an erection have lasting dessenisitizing effects with regular usage. This means that it will become more and more difficult to "get it up". Having a stiffy wont necessarily fix your problem. Address you sex drive issue first. If you have sex drive and no stiffy to back it up, then look into medication.

Is this what I have to look forward to in the future ?....shit...I couldnt imagine not being able to get it up at all...especially with a new girl ...with an old one I understand ,Hell I get bored really quickly with my partners and can only get it up once a night...But as far as my medication goes...LOL lets just say she never complains.....I dont believe in Viagra or cialis and I agree with Feofletch with trying natural things first...you know your test levels are getting probably low enough to warrent TRT...remember they do start to fall off at the age of 26 "so claimed"